12.07.2010

12.04.2010

REFLECTIONS "Growing up in the 50's"-Chapter 3

Nostalgia Tidbit: It was a time when you rarely saw a purebred
dog. There were no leash laws and no house dogs in our
neighborhood. They roamed freely and there were many. Cats
didn’t have a chance. They were always on the run.
Chapter 3
The Neighborhood Bully
I’ll never forget “ole Butch”, the neighborhood bully.
He was one of the ugliest and meanest looking dogs I
had ever seen. Still to this day, some 50 years later, I
don’t think I’ve seen uglier. Butch dominated our
street where just about every household had at least
one yard dog. They were everywhere. I remember
many nights of unrest due to dogs barking and barking
and barking! I think “ole Butch” chewed on just about
every one of them at one time or another during his
reign.
Sometimes it was unmerciful the way he would flex
his overpowering muscles to ensure his dominance
over all who were brave enough to challenge him.
Finally, one day Butch met his match. Dad had
captured a raccoon “in the wild” and brought it home
where we had it caged most of the time. My two older
brothers made a leash and tied “Mr. Coon” to our
clothes line wire so it would slide along the line as the
raccoon paced back and forth. He really seemed a little
tame especially for a wild animal. Still, we wouldn’t
dare touch him.
The day of reckoning came when “ole Butch” did his
usual strut in to our yard over to the clothes line area
and immediately went into his intimidating “growl
mode”.
Mr. Coon wasn’t fazed in the least. I had to see this! I
could tell this was going to be an interesting moment.
Sure enough, with the quickness of a karate expert, the
coon had Butch on his back fighting for his life. After
a split second and a few swipes with his claws, Butch
was up and running and yelping unmercifully. I can’t
tell you how fulfilling it was to see Mr. Bully on the
run.
A few days later the raccoon escaped never to be seen
again. Even though he was only in our presence a few
days, he had performed a major accomplishment in
bringing the neighborhood bully “to his knees”.
Butch never was the same after that. It seemed he
calmed his aggressions a great deal for the remainder
of his life…. which, by the way only lasted a few more
months.
One day “ole Butch” more than met his match as he
was running across the main highway heading north.
Sadly he met a southbound bus head on. So much for
the “neighborhood bully”. No others ever stepped up to
the plate in an attempt to replace “ole Butch”. In my
imagination, I can still visualize him strutting through
the neighborhood.

12.01.2010

REFLECTIONS "Growing up in the 50's" Chapter 2-The Big Dipper

Nostalgia Tidbit: It was very common for the entire family to
drink water out of one glass that sat near the sink, refrigerator or
outdoor well. Sometimes even friends and relatives visiting drank
out of the same glass although usually you tried to avoid such.
Many folks used “metal dippers” to serve that same purpose. We
did!
Chapter 2
The Big Dipper
We didn’t use a lot of glasses when I was growing up.
Nowadays, around the house with only my wife and
me, we probably use more glasses in a day than we had
in our household when I was a kid. The reason we used
so few glasses, except at mealtime, was the fact that
we had “a family dipper”. In case you don’t know what
a dipper is…..it was a metal cup shaped container with
a long handle. It always hung on a nail above the
kitchen sink well within reach of all of us.

Any time we wanted a drink of water, we filled the
dipper with tap water. It really tasted good back then.
When you had your drink, you had better rinse it out
with hot water to kill the germs and then hang it back
on the nail, ready for the next family member to use.
When I say family use, I mean immediate family.
Visitors would have the luxury of using a glass. I will
never forget the time Uncle Joe visited us from
Tennessee. He went straight to the family dipper and
got his drink. Not only did Uncle Joe intrude
on our off limit family dipper but it was also rumored
that he had TB.
Back then, I wasn’t even sure what Tuberculosis was,
but I knew it couldn’t be good for someone to drink
out of the family dipper with such a thing.

Needless to say, that dipper was missing the next day
never to return. I guess washing it with hot water
wasn’t convincing enough to kill the fear of the TB
germ. It was nice drinking out of glasses for a
while…but soon…a new family dipper returned…after
Uncle Joe had gone back home of course! Uncle Joe
never came back to visit.
I think he was pretty old at the time … probably 45 or
so! He actually died shortly after his visit. He died of
TB, we supposed.
I don’t think I ever drank out of a dipper again.